Consent-based, non-sexual touch
Accessible cuddling for people who need gentler touch
For neurodivergent, asexual, LGBTQIA+, disabled, and touch-deprived adults.
What is accessible cuddling?
Accessible cuddling is a consent-based, non-sexual practice centered on presence, communication, and care.Sessions are collaborative and negotiated, with plenty of space to pause, check in, and adjust. You are always in control of what does and does not happen.This practice welcomes adults of all identities and backgrounds. It is especially supportive for people who are neurodivergent, asexual, disabled, or who feel overlooked in more typical touch or bodywork settings, as well as anyone craving connection without pressure to perform or meet expectations.You don’t need to know exactly what you want to begin. We can figure that out together at your own pace.
Before we meet
We’ll connect briefly beforehand to talk through comfort, boundaries, and any sensory or access needs. You don’t need to have everything figured out. We can explore what feels supportive together.
During the session
During sessions, touch is negotiated moment to moment. We pause, check in, and adjust as needed. You can change your mind, ask for something different, or stop at any time.
Touch & positioning
Sessions may include cuddling, holding, resting together, gentle contact, or simply being close. Everything will always stay within agreed-upon boundaries. Clothing remains on, and everything is paced to support your safety and ease.
You're always in control
There is no expectation to perform, reciprocate, or push past your limits. Your “no,” “not yet,” or “can we change this?” are all respected.
About this work
This practice is grounded in consent, presence, and nervous-system safety. I offer non-sexual, collaborative touch for people who may feel overwhelmed, touch-deprived, or unseen in more typical settings.My approach is slow, communicative, and responsive. I value clear boundaries, curiosity, and the freedom to pause or change course at any time. Figuring out what feels right together is part of the work.This space is especially supportive for neurodivergent, asexual, LGBTQIA+, disabled, and highly sensitive adults, as well as anyone seeking gentle connection without pressure or expectation.I come to this work with a background in embodied practices, nervous-system and trauma-informed approaches, and a deep respect for autonomy, consent, and clear boundaries.
Boundaries & Consent
Consent is central to everything we do here.
This is a clearly bounded, non-sexual practice designed to support safety, trust, and ease for both people involved.What this is:
This work is about presence, negotiated touch, and care. Sessions are collaborative and shaped together through conversation, check-ins, and mutual agreement. The goal is comfort, grounding, and connection, especially at a pace that feels supportive to your nervous system.What this isn’t:
Accessible cuddling is not sexual services, massage therapy, dating, or psychotherapy. There is no sexual contact, no genital touch, and no expectation of arousal or emotional disclosure. This space is intentionally structured and boundaried.
Consent is ongoing
Consent is not a one-time conversation and happens continuously. We will check in before and during the session, and you’re always welcome to change your mind, ask for something different, or stop altogether. You never need to explain or justify your boundaries.
Mutual respect
Boundaries go both ways. I also maintain clear limits to ensure sessions remain safe, respectful, and aligned with the purpose of this work. If boundaries are not respected, the session will be paused or ended. This clarity helps create a container where trust can exist.
This may be a good fit if...
You’re seeking non-sexual, consent-based touch
You’re neurodivergent, asexual, disabled, touch-sensitive, or feel overlooked in typical touch or bodywork settings
You appreciate clear boundaries, communication, and check-ins
You want to move slowly and feel safe in your body
You don’t want pressure to perform, flirt, or reciprocate
You’re open to collaborating around comfort and needs, even if you’re unsure what you want at first
This may not be a good fit if...
You’re looking for sexual services, erotic touch, or genital contact
You’re seeking massage therapy, bodywork, or physical treatment
You’re looking for a romantic or dating experience
You’re uncomfortable with clear boundaries or ongoing consent
You’re unwilling to communicate, check in, or respect limits
How to reach out
If this feels aligned, the next step is simply to reach out. There’s no pressure to know exactly what you want or to commit right away.You’re welcome to send a brief message sharing what drew you here and any questions you have. We can talk through what you’re looking for, access needs, and whether working together feels like a good fit.I’m currently based in the Los Angeles area and offer both in-person and virtual sessions.Rates and session formats are discussed after an initial conversation, once we’ve confirmed we're a good fit.
